Thursday, June 21, 2007

Real or Memorex

This was sent to Aunt B via email...

Dear Aunt B,

a while ago me and my friend eva got very drunk and some guy in a bar
convinced us to make out with each other. ever since then we've been
touching each other playfully, but we've always said we just do this to make
fun of all those guys who get turned on by girl on girl stuff. last night,
though, me, eva and a third friend were watching a movie and it was cold, so
we used a blanket. me and eva started touching each other's thighs again and
first it was like usual, like o make fun of it. but then we started touching
each other between our legs and e did that for like an hours and somehow it
didn't feel like a joke anymore because. we were really close to each other
and i think she really enjoyed it because she started to breathe faster. i
also really liked it but now i don't know what to do because i don't want
this to affect our friendship. i don't know how serious that was. what do you

Dear Friend,

Once you cross a certain line, whether it be heterosexual, Bi or homosexual, the variables will change. Is it platonic? Platonic, often turns sour, believe it or not.

I think, in both hetero and homosexual frindships, once you throw sex into the mix, it does change. Now, if you were only doing this, for entertainment but feel uncomfortable, you need only to say that you don't roll like that. You may also tell your friend, that you are concerned about your friendship and want to just remain friends.

I do believe if you kinda like it and entertain it, it will continue. Most of us go through sexual experimentation, that is quite natural. Now, you must decide if this is Real or Memorex, a fake fun way to spend an evening. What I mean is this; If you do not feel the same way, as in becoming serious, be cautious and do not put yourself, back in the situation. It may die down. Or you can simply be up front and tell her, you don't want to ruin your friendship. I would say that or use that as a premise to how you feel.

Just as in any relationship, even with the same sex, if you do not want to do something, you must find it in yourself to say NO!

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